Pecan Grove (www.pecan-grove.net) Pecan Grove and Senior Residence

June 30, 2013

June 2013

Filed under: Senior Residence — knewman @ 3:38 pm

Everyone at PG is doing fairly well.  Teresa uses a wheel chair most of the time now, not because she can’t walk, but because she’s afraid of falling again.  When she needs to walk she does.  Esther had some bad days in June, but seems to be back to normal now.

We’ve had more changes in staff in June.  Virginia McKnight resigned, and Salena Thorburn joined the staff.  Salena is our son Kenny’s girlfriend, and is a full-time Aggie (student at Texas A&M), during the school year.  A&M is about 70 miles from PG, so Salena stays in the bunk house when she’s working.  She won’t be able to work full-time once school starts, but she’s hoping to continue working weekends.  Brisy is also planning on going to school full-time starting this fall, so we’ll be losing two out of four of our full-time staff.  The following pictures are of Virginia when she was leaving, and of Salena and Kenny.

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Steve and Arlene Gates, And Aggie and Tom Borgeson visited from north central PA.  They know several of our residents.  Below they’re shown with Naomi.  Also, Don Reynolds spent a few days with us on his way from Korea back to Bolivia.  He knows Esther very well… told stories about her when he was a kid in north west Ohio… she cried at the good memories… sure hated to see him go!   He’s shown with Esther below.

Steve Arlene Naomi Angie DonEsther and Don

Doris turned 90 in June.  Now 6 of our 10 residents are 90 or over!  Kathy and I visited Kathy’s relatives in the Phoenix area including her aunt Marjorie Willumsen.  While with Marjorie we visited an assisted living home with 10 residents run by some of the friends.  One of the residents is Willis Propp, who was in our home in France in the early 90’s.  The following picture shows Kathy with Willis and Marjorie.

Doris turns 90Kathy Willis Marjorie

Walter and Arlis Craighton (Salena’s grandparents) and their son Les spent a few days at PG… we didn’t get their picture.

It’s exceptionally hot here, and we have about half of the average yearly precipitation, but so far the pecans are looking good.  Terry and Samuel have just begun irrigating the pecan trees from the lake.  Hopefully we won’t run out of water in the lake like we did in 2011!

No pictures of the twins… if you’re interested look at Brendan and Karla Furrow’s blog listed at the upper right.

Thanks,

Ken

October 1, 2012

September 2012

Filed under: Senior Residence — knewman @ 4:53 pm

There are two postings this month, this one about the PG Sr. Residence, and the preceding one about the pecan harvest (for those interested).  A lot has happened in September.

Sadly, Frank’s confusion got to the point where he needed more care than we could provide.  With heavy hearts, plans were made to move him to a nursing home near his sister Jean in Florida.  Ronda flew with him from Houston to Orlando.  Jean and Philip Farris met them in Orlando and took them to the nursing home.  That was a difficult day for all of us, but it has turned out better than expected.  Frank is very happy to be near his sister, and the nursing home is giving him daily therapy which seems to have helped.  Jean sees him almost every day, takes him to meetings and sometimes to her place for a meal.  We’re sad to see him go, but glad the situation has worked out well for him there.  We miss his humor and soft spirit here.  The pictures below show him with Ronda and I just before leaving, and then him with Jean and Philip in Florida.

Ronda and her husband Mike Rosamond (who does the pecan farming), her son Brandon Chandler (who has been working on the farm) and Brandon’s family have decided to move back to Arkansas to be near their families (Rosamonds and Chandlers).  So we’ve put out a message asking for help at PG.  Then we realized that Destiny Minor (Mike’s niece who has been working part-time at the residence), is planning on staying, and wants to work full-time.  So, we’re planning on having Destiny work full-time, and Kathy (my wife) and Karin (my daughter) will take over more of the management responsibilities.  We’re still looking for someone to work on the farm, but Brandon isn’t planning on leaving till the end of the year, so we have some time to find the right person.  This will be a big change for PG.  We hope all goes well for the Rosamonds and Chandlers in McRae Arkansas.

We had 3 birthdays in September.  Jean’s (89th) must have been a hoot (I wasn’t there).  She loves Whataburger, so they loaded the PG bus with all the residents and took them to Whataburger in Willis.  The employees at Whataburger were great!  One even tried to dance with Jean!

Esther turned 97 – oldest resident, with a wonderful spirit.

Evelyn turned 86.  Visitors included the Beavers who visited Barbara.

Lyle Waldo (my cousin’s son) visited his brother Don and Jenny Waldo.  The picture shows Don, his daughter Ava and Lyle.  Jim Holmes came down to see Lyle Waldo.  Here he’s shown with his good friend (one of our residents) Betty Lawrence.

Frances McPherson’s son Richard came with Jerry Freed (Jerry on the left, Richard on the right).  Virginia’s sisters came to visit.

Janet Nicole came to visit her aunt Barbara.  Janet is also seen in the Pecan Harvest posting working at the vibrating table.  The second picture below shows a spider down by the lake, in this the bug capital of the world!

I can’t finish without some pictures of the twins!

Ken

 

 

 

September 1, 2012

August 2012

Filed under: Pecan Grove,Senior Residence — knewman @ 9:03 am

The residents at PG are doing fairly well.  Jean had some bad days in July and hasn’t regained her full strength.  She’s decided to give up her car.  She’s the only resident that has had a car, though she seldom drove it.  Frank continues to loose weight gradually.  Now he’s 210 lb fully dressed.  His confusion and short term memory continue to get worse.  When his mind was clearer he insisted on one shower a week (whether he needed it or not 🙂 ).  Now he’s not sure what day it is, so he takes a shower every day!  In spite of the confusion, he keeps a wonderful spirit, and a sense of humor.

We had lots of visitors in August but didn’t do well at getting pictures.  Here are 2 pictures of a visit with Selna and Diane Thorburn and Diane’s sister Doris Kopitke.

Clarice Berry came to visit with her brother and his wife, Carroll and Cindy Smith.  The second picture is of Kathleen Stancliff (one of the 4 full-time staff at the residence) on her birthday surrounded by Serenity, Hailee and Dixie-Rose Chandler.

Three birthdays close together in August are Karin (our daughter who works part-time at PG), my dad, Jack, and my sister, Ronda (the manager at PG).  Here’s pictures of Karin and Jack.

Here’s a picture of all 3 together at Brent’s house.  The second picture is of Esther and Bea visiting on a bench down by the lake.  Both are nearly blind, but each evening they walk together down to the lake.  Esther insists that this little 7 acre lake is a river :).

The pecan trees are loaded with pecans!  Some are so loaded that the limbs are breaking from the weight.  The first picture below shows a tree that looks like it has been destroyed by the weight of the pecans.  The second is of a doe and fawn in the hay field.  These 2 deer are often seen by the residents around the building.

I wrote July’s post from Israel and included 2 pictures from there.  After Israel Kathy and I went to Montenegro (to see the McSpadden’s) and then to France for the convention.  We lived near Paris from ’90 – ’93, and love to go back about every 2 years.  This shows the workers there, and then our good friends Andre and Julia Bilbao and their daughter Ainoha, who live in Shanghai but were at the convention in France.  Andre (who’s French) lived with us for one school year here in Texas in ’95.

I’m not sure if I can write a post without a picture of the twins.  Here are the twins chilling.

Ken

 

 

July 31, 2012

July 2012

Filed under: Pecan Grove,Senior Residence — knewman @ 12:40 am

All at PG are doing well.  We’ve had many visitors in July.  Visitors are certainly appreciated!  The following pictures show Eldon, Ruth, Pam and John Badertscher with Esther Potts.  The second picture shows the same group visiting with the residents.

Sharon Morgan and Carrie Franks came to visit Dale and Patty Maki.  Patty brought them to PG for a visit.  Ralph and Dee Hart came back again, shown here with Evelyn Wilson.

Doug, Elaine, Karen and David Beaman visited as well as Jon and Mae Nelson.  Jon helped with the construction of PG… good to have them back.

Ron and Anna Furrow (the other grandparents) visited with our 2 twin granddaughters, Maren and Maven Furrow.  Frank Porter had his 73rd birthday.

On July 4th some of the kids did a fireworks show for the residents.  The picture shows them sitting on the back porch ready to watch the show.  Early in July we had a lot of rain and a problem with the lake overflow, so the lake level was too high.

Recently it seems there is always a Naomi story.  She insists we get her some bug tapes, like the ones you usually see hanging in the cook house to catch flies.  She hangs them outside her window (bug tapes are meant to be used indoors), and then is very impressed by the number of bugs she catches!  We have tried to explain to her that she now lives in one of the bug capitals of the world!

I’m writing this blog update from Rosh Pina, Israel (just north of the Sea of Galilee).  Kathy and I arrived in Israel July 18th, and will be leaving tonight for Montenegro for a few days to visit the McSpaddens, and then on the France for the convention.  Some of you have been getting my messages about Israel and are probably tired of hearing about it.  For those who haven’t, here’s 2 pictures.  The first is of Jerusalem taken from the Mount of Olives.  The second is of a Saturday evening bible study in Haifa.

We’ve had wonderful days here, touring Israel, understanding a little better the history and context in which Jesus lived, and enjoying sweet fellowship.  Israel has been much more enjoyable than we ever expected!

Shalom,

Ken

 

 

June 30, 2012

June 2012

Filed under: Pecan Farming,Pecan Grove,Senior Residence — knewman @ 10:25 am

We’ve had many privileges at PG in June.  The residents have all been doing fairly well.   Jean Hagemiere spent a few days in June in the hospital due to an infection, but she’s back home and doing much better.  Esther Potts has had some stomach and dizziness problems this week, but she seems to be improving.

Then there’s Naomi, who “died” twice this month.  If your not familiar with her previous “death” click on January 2012 on the right side of this page, and go about half way down that post.  The two times in June, both during the morning bible study (like in January)… she laid her head down on the table like she was tired.  That’s not unusual, so we let her rest, but then after a bit someone would try to rouse her, and find her unresponsive.  We knew from the January experience that she’d probably come around, so the first time we loaded her onto someone’s rolling walker.  It reminded me of those carts at Lowes lumberyard when you put 8′ two by fours on a cart.  Someone held her feet and someone else her head, and we rolled her back to her room, and lifted her into bed.  Just as she landed in bed she came around and said she was tired and wanted to go to bed.  I told her she was already in bed.  She said she wanted to go to HER bed.  I told her that no one else would allow her in their bed, so she was in HER bed!  She seemed to understand the humor in that (which is rare!).  30 min later Virginia came back from checking on Naomi and said she was doing fine… already bossing Virginia around.  The second time was similar.  Kenny was there to help so we were able to carry her in the chair she was sitting in instead of using a walker.  She was awake before we got her to her bed.  We wish we understood the cause of these spells (TIAs or heart arrhythmia, we’re not sure which it is).  Since the last one she’s been moving to a big easy chair during bible study, so at least if she passes out she’ll be comfortable!

We “make fun” of Naomi… she does have a difficult personality and very little sense of humor.  But I’ve grown to appreciate her more.  She expresses gratitude more often, has a greater interest in our visitors, and apologizes more often, than anyone else.  The difficult parts of her personality are doing a good work for some of us.  We really are glad to have her with us.

June 16th was a special day.  There was a baptism at PG – 4 were baptized.  I didn’t count but someone said there were over 100 standing on the pier.  Afterward, good visits at the Sr. Residence.  And it was the first visit for the twins to PG, shown below held by Virginia (sorry, but if you’re going to follow this blog you’ll have to put up with comments about our new twin granddaughters, Maren and Maven Furrow).

The residents are always excited when they get a chance to “get out”.  Union Sunday at our place is one such opportunity each month.  We have a pot luck after meeting.  Jennifer Downs was with us June 3rd.  After the lunch we gathered around and she told us about her recent experiences in Haiti.  This was also the first time for the twins to be in our (the grandparents) home (shown here with their mom, Karla).

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Sometimes we load the residents on the bus and take them to Walmart.  What a hoot.  Ever tried to herd cats?  Other times they go 400 yards to Sunday morning meeting, or 15 miles to gospel meeting.

Sharon’s mom, Evelyn Williamson, spent a few days with us at PG.  We wish she’d stay more… but we’re glad for the time we did have with her.  Here she’s down at the lake with Kathy, Sharon, Esther and Bea.  Bea and Esther hike down to the lake every evening (Esther is convinced the 7 acre lake is a river!).  The second picture is of Sharon and Michaela, who just left for Happy preps.

We had lots of other visitors in June, but only have a few pictures.  Carol Bush and Sandra Wilson (Doris Crawford’s sister) came and stayed a few days.  They were there for Doris’s birthday (16 again!).  Charles and Bethel Arnold from Ponchatoula LA visited.  Don Waldo (from here) and Andrew Newman (from Atlanta) flew Don’s high dollar remote control planes.  Britney Crawmer from Indiana visited Barbara (shown with her 2 nieces).  Bea also had a birthday, 94th!

 

Terry and Kim Hoffman have started what seems like a petting zoo at their place at PG.  They’ve had chickens for a long time, which supply plenty of eggs.  Now they’re raising rabbits and goats.  The pictures below show Don Waldo and Vince Occhipinti visiting with the 4 new goats, the rabbits and a baby rabbit.

We have one fig tree at PG, and the figs were ready in June.  One tree produces a LOT of figs.  They aren’t very big, but they sure are good.  We have fresh figs, fig bars, and fig preserves (which don’t last long).

This little dog Daisy sure has won some hearts at PG.

 

As I’ve mentioned in the past, all the “paper shell”  pecan trees are grafted.  The paper shell pecans (we have 5 types)  naturally have very poor roots.  So the bottom portion of another nut tree (native pecan, walnut…) is used, and the pecan tree is grafted in about 10″ above the ground.  This is done when the trees are small.  After 10 or so years, the graft itself is hardly visible.  However, that bottom root (maybe like human nature) tries very hard to put out limbs.  These limbs (Mike calls them sucker limbs) grow very quickly, and if left would sap the strength of the tree.  So, several times a year we have to cut off the sucker limbs.  Here you can see a pecan limb on the left that’s from above the graft, and a sucker limb from below the graft on the right.  The leaves are different.  In this case the pecan limbs will be cut off also, because they are too close to the ground.  There are lessons in that story for me…

Twins with Aliyah Bolt, who’s 11 weeks older.   This grand-parenting is tough duty!

Thanks for your interest!

Ken

 

 

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